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Why is it that Narcissistic people can have Relationships for so many years?


Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is a mental health disorder characterized by a pattern of grandiosity, need for admiration, and lack of empathy. People with NPD may have traits that make it challenging to maintain long-term relationships, including a tendency to prioritize their own needs and desires over those of others. However, some research suggests that narcissistic individuals may be able to maintain relationships for many years, despite these challenges. In this blog post, we will explore some of the reasons why this can occur.



1. Narcissistic individuals can be highly skilled at creating an initial positive impression: Narcissists are often skilled at making a positive first impression on others. They may be charming, charismatic, and appear to be confident and self-assured. This can make them seem attractive to potential partners and help to establish relationships.



2. Narcissists may pursue partners who are willing to accept a more subservient role in the relationship: Narcissistic individuals may seek out partners who are willing to take on a more supportive, subservient role in the relationship. This can create a power dynamic that allows the narcissist to prioritize their own needs and desires even as the relationship continues.



3. Narcissistic individuals may prioritize maintaining a positive image: Narcissistic individuals often place a high value on their public image. This may encourage them to maintain relationships over the long term, even if they are not necessarily invested in the relationship emotionally. They may view a long-term relationship as a symbol of their success or status and be motivated to maintain it in order to bolster their own self-image.



4. Narcissists may experience moments of empathy and genuine connection within their relationships: While narcissists are often characterized by a lack of empathy, this does not mean that they are incapable of experiencing moments of genuine connection with their partners. These moments can provide motivation to continue the relationship, even if there are long stretches of time when the relationship feels more transactional or superficial.



5. Some narcissists may change over time: While personality disorders like NPD are often thought to be difficult to treat, some research suggests that narcissists may be able to develop greater empathy and emotional intelligence over time. This can help them to maintain healthier long-term relationships.



Overall, it is important to recognize that maintaining a relationship with a narcissistic individual can be challenging and difficult, particularly if they are not receptive to therapy or other forms of treatment. However, it is also possible that some narcissistic individuals are able to maintain relationships over the long term despite the challenges associated with this personality disorder. Understanding the reasons why this can occur may be helpful in navigating relationships with narcissistic individuals in a healthy and sustainable way.

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