Soteldo Psychotherapy
A Person-Centered Approach to Healing from Narcissistic Abuse and Codependency
by Raquel Soteldo RP
A Certified Narcissistic Abuse Treatment Clinician
(343) 312-5283
Male Sexual Dysfunction
SNOMED Terms
Adult victim of non-domestic sexual abuse
Adult victim of sexual abuse
Alcohol-induced sexual dysfunction
Amnestic disorder due to medical disorder
Amphetamine-induced sexual dysfunction
Anxiety disorder due to a general medical condition
Articulation disorder due to hyperkinesis
Child victim of maltreatment
Child victim of nutritional neglect
Child victim of physical abuse
Circadian rhythm sleep disorder due to alcohol
Cocaine-induced sexual dysfunction
Degenerative brain disorder due to alcohol
Disorder due to alcohol abuse
History of adult sexual abuse
History of child sexual abuse
Memory disorder due to organic brain damage
Mental disorder due to drug
No diagnosis on Axis III
Opioid-induced mood disorder due to opioid abuse
Opioid-induced mood disorder due to opioid dependence
Opioid-induced sexual dysfunction
Premature ejaculation
Psychotic disorder due to amphetamine
Sedative, hypnotic AND/OR anxiolytic-induced sexual dysfunction
Sexual aversion disorder
Situational hypoactive sexual desire disorder
Goals
Increase desire for and enjoyment of sexual activity.
Attain and maintain physiological excitement response during sexual intercourse.
Reach ejaculation with a reasonable amount of time, intensity, and focus to sexual stimulation.
Eliminate pain and achieve a presence of subjective pleasure before, during, and after sexual intercourse.
Behavioral Definitions
Describes consistently very low or no pleasurable anticipation of or desire for sexual activity.
Strongly avoids and/or is repulsed by any and all sexual contact in spite of a relationship of mutual caring and respect.
Recurrently experiences a lack of the usual physiological response of sexual excitement and arousal (attaining and/or maintaining an erection).
Reports a consistent lack of a subjective sense of enjoyment and pleasure during sexual activity.
Experiences a persistent delay in or absence of reaching ejaculation after achieving arousal and in spite of sensitive sexual pleasuring by a caring partner.
Describes genital pain experienced before, during, or after sexual intercourse.
Diagnoses
Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder
Sexual Aversion Disorder
Male Erectile Disorder
Male Orgasmic Disorder
Dyspareunia
Premature Ejaculation
Male Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder Due to Axis III Disorder
Male Erectile Disorder Due to Axis III Disorder
Male Dyspareunia Due to Axis III Disorder
Sexual Dysfunction NOS
Sexual Abuse of Child, Victim
What is Chronic Pain?
Male sexual dysfunction (MSD) is a term used to describe a variety of problems that can affect a man's sexual health and ability to enjoy sex. It can encompass issues with desire, arousal, erection, orgasm, or ejaculation. Here's a breakdown of MSD:
Symptoms: Men with MSD may experience one or more of the following difficulties:
Low libido (sex drive)
Difficulty getting or maintaining an erection (erectile dysfunction)
Delayed or premature ejaculation
Difficulty achieving orgasm
Pain during sex
Causes: The causes of MSD can be physical, psychological, or a combination of both. Here are some common contributing factors:
Physical factors: Age-related hormonal changes, medical conditions (e.g., diabetes, heart disease), neurological disorders, certain medications, and surgeries can all affect sexual function.
Psychological factors: Stress, anxiety, depression, relationship problems, past sexual experiences, and performance anxiety can all contribute to MSD.
Lifestyle factors: Smoking, alcohol abuse, drug use, and lack of exercise can also play a role in MSD.
Diagnosis: There is no single test to diagnose MSD. Doctors typically diagnose it based on a man's history and symptoms. They may ask questions about his sexual history, general health, and any medications he is taking. A physical exam may also be performed to rule out any underlying physical causes.
Effects of Male Sexual Dysfunction
Here's a closer look at the potential effects of MSD:
Physical Effects:
Erectile Dysfunction (ED): Difficulty getting or maintaining an erection can make sex physically impossible or frustrating.
Painful Sex: Pain during intercourse can make sex uncomfortable and deter men from wanting to be intimate.
Reduced Sexual Satisfaction: Difficulty achieving orgasm or experiencing other sexual problems can decrease a man's overall satisfaction with sex.
Emotional Effects:
Frustration and Disappointment: Struggling with sexual dysfunction can be a source of frustration and disappointment for men, leading to feelings of inadequacy or insecurity.
Loss of Self-Esteem: MSD can negatively impact a man's self-esteem, particularly if he feels like he's failing to meet societal expectations or his partner's needs.
Anxiety and Stress: The worry and pressure surrounding sex can lead to anxiety and performance anxiety, further hindering sexual function.
Relationship Effects:
Communication Issues: MSD can create communication problems within a relationship as couples may struggle to talk openly about their sexual difficulties.
Decreased Intimacy: Sexual dysfunction can lead to a decrease in overall intimacy within a relationship, impacting emotional connection and closeness.
Relationship Strain: Unresolved MSD can put a strain on a relationship, potentially leading to resentment, frustration, and even infidelity in some cases.
How does Male Sexual Dysfuntion affect your life?
Here's a breakdown of the potential consequences:
Physical Health: MSD can manifest in physical ways like difficulty achieving or maintaining an erection, or pain during sex. This can make sex physically uncomfortable or even impossible.
Mental and Emotional Health: The frustration, disappointment, and performance anxiety associated with MSD can negatively impact a man's self-esteem, leading to feelings of inadequacy or insecurity. It can also contribute to stress, anxiety, and even depression.
Relationships: MSD can create communication problems and strain within relationships. Men might hesitate to communicate their struggles, fearing judgment or rejection. This can lead to a decrease in intimacy and overall relationship satisfaction.
Self-Esteem: Sexual function is often tied to ideas of masculinity and self-worth. Experiencing MSD can negatively impact a man's self-esteem, especially if he feels like he's failing to meet societal expectations or his partner's needs.